|
Would
you like to enjoy happy, healthy and fulfilling
relationships with men? Well, you can!
Dear Friend,
Of course you'd like to have happy, comfortable
relationships with all the men you know. And a healthy,
fulfilling relationship with that one special man - one you've
got now or one you hope to catch.
And it IS possible to have those
great relationships!
But.....
If you're like most women, you've been getting
advice, suggestions and opinions from other women all your
life - and it probably hasn't helped much.
You just don't know what to believe
anymore when it comes to men! What do men want? How in the world
do men think? What the hell is WRONG with guys,
anyway???
What
if most of what you thought you knew about men turned out to be
wrong???
You see, the problem is, women will ALWAYS have
trouble understanding men if you try to figure them out by using
a female brain and female thought processes. That's
why what you've been hearing from other women all your life has
done nothing to help you find that elusive romance in your life
- THEY
couldn't figure it out, either!
| FLASH:
Female and male
brains are NOT created the same, there are physical
differences and they flow with different chemicals,
affecting the way we think, feel and react. |
Now, how about if you heard from a man what
men are like, what men want and how men think? Do you think
maybe you'd have a better chance of "getting it" if
you got if from the horse's mouth?
That's where I come in. My name is Owen and I AM a man. A man who has been through
way too many years
of the same frustrations with relationships you have. Yes, it DOES
seem like we're from different planets sometimes - the two sexes
just don't relate very easily, do we?
See if any of these
rings a bell:
-
You're out with a
couple of your best girlfriends and see a man you'd love to meet but he
doesn't approach you to start a conversation. You can't walk
up to him or he'll "get the wrong idea". Why didn't
he make an effort to talk to you?
-
You meet a guy and
he seems really nice, you'd like to get to know him, but he
doesn't ask you for your number. No way will you ask for HIS
number, that would be way too forward!
-
He's nice, he's an
engaging conversationalist and you'd love to touch his hand or
his arm but you can't do that, you'll send the wrong message,
that you're easy or something.
-
You've been dating
him for months and you've been waiting for him to talk about
"commitment" but he never brings it up. So you start
talking about it and next thing you know, he's becoming more
and more distant. "Men! They're all afraid of
commitment!"
-
Something's been bothering you for a few days
and you feel the overwhelming need to talk about it - now! But
he just won't open up and discuss it when you want to.
"Men don't communicate!"
Only a man can really tell you
what's going on in a man's head when you run into things like the
above examples. I do just that in my book - and that's not all!
| Boy, when I read that chapter on the
myths and stereotypes about men, I didn't want to believe
they were wrong. I mean, these are the things I heard all
my life! But the more I thought about it, the more it
explained a lot of the problems I've had dealing with men
and why it's always been so hard to meet nice guys.
Now if
I could just go back in time to when I was 23 again, my
life might be different! Thanks for finally telling me how
you guys really think! It's no where near what I thought
Angela J.
Seattle |
In my book, "Let's talk....Man to Woman" you'll learn:
- Why you have a hard time understanding men
- The differences in how men and women think and how this
makes us react in different ways to the same things
- What men are REALLY attracted to in a woman, and why
- Why men seem to be afraid of committing
(you'll learn that it's not fear so much as reluctance - and
why) and why they always
seem to be interested in at least looking at other women
- Just where, when and how you've been misinformed about men
- Some of the serious problems in our society that result from
the deep misunderstandings most Western women have about men
- Just what some of these misunderstandings are and how
believing them will cause trouble in your efforts and desires
to meet - and keep - a good man
- How to communicate with men in ways they will understand -
this applies to your relationships with ANY men:
friends, co-workers, boyfriends, strangers - even a husband
- How to get your man to meet your needs and wants -
with no manipulation, coercion or sneaky tricks - and
have him love doing it
- How to meet his needs and keep him looking forward to
coming home to YOU! With so little work on your
part, you'll be amazed!!
- And maybe most importantly, you'll learn how men
interpret what you say and do. And why. Do you find that too
often, when you want to talk about something it quickly
becomes a fight - the exact OPPOSITE of what you want?
How would it feel
to have a man thinking you're the most
special woman in the world? Who appreciates you, respects you and
makes you feel valued?
Just think about that for a
minute......
Now, what do you think he'd be willing to do for
you if he felt that way about you? Wow! Can you even imagine the
possibilities?
Read the following story and see if it gives you a
warm, fuzzy feeling:
Carmen glances up at the clock on the wall and feels an involuntary smile come to her lips and a warm, almost tingly feeling
coursing through her body. She knows Anthony is going to come through the door any minute now.
Most days she gets those same feelings if she thinks about Anthony getting home from work. When her mind is on
other things and she’s surprised by his entrance, it’s even better!
On this day, Carmen has been thinking about her husband more than usual, after the conversation she had over the beautiful, delectable lunch in that classy new restaurant with her two friends, Ellen and Susan. How could she help it, when both her friends kept saying how lucky she is to have a man like Anthony? Ellen has been single for years and laments her “bad luck” with men, she says she’s about to give up on men! And Susan was talking about leaving her third husband.
Carmen knows it has nothing to do with luck. Luck won’t keep a marriage happy, healthy and fulfilling and passionate for 10 years. So why are she and Anthony still so happy, loving and affectionate with each other?
Maybe it’s because she grew up in a Puerto Rican family full of love, seeing her parents always treating each other with respect and consideration, showing each other affection openly. And communicating without arguing.
Maybe it’s because her mother taught her to accept that men and women don’t think, act or talk the same and that if she wants a man to make her happy, she should make sure he’s happy.
Carmen’s mother also taught her to respect a man for being a man, that there are good reasons we’re different and if she accepts that she can enjoy the differences instead of expecting
(or demanding) a man to be,
act or think like a woman.
Whatever she learned growing up, Carmen knows Ellen and Susan didn’t learn. The things they (angrily) tell her about men, she knows are sadly all wrong and she knows they are the reason her friends are unhappy and “unlucky” in their relationships with men.
Carmen’s thoughts of her dear friends are ended by the soft click of Anthony’s key in the lock. The smile and tingly feeling return, in anticipation of his warm, reassuring hug and the way he always pulls back ever so slightly, looks in her eyes with a smile then gives her that gentle but passionate kiss “hello”.
After 10 years of marriage the passion is still there and for that Carmen gives thanks to understanding Anthony.
|
How Understanding Men Leads to Better
Relationships
If you want to have a deeply loving relationship
with a man, you need to understand him, how he thinks, what he
really wants. And you need to know how to communicate with him -
openly, honestly and with good feelings, not animosity.
Here's how it works:
-
If you want to have that special, satisfying,
fulfilling and loving relationship you have to have mutual
respect
-
To have respect for a man you also need
to have trust for him
-
To have trust and respect for
him you have to have some understanding of what he wants, how
he thinks - what makes him tick and what goes on inside his
mind
-
To understand him you need to be able
to communicate on a deep level
This sounds pretty simple - and it is simple! IF
you base your perspective on the TRUTH about how men think and
what men want.
Here's the problem that plagues so many women
in their lives:
If what you THINK you know about men isn't right
and you're basing your "understanding" on misinformation
you won't trust him, respect him or feel the love for him you
desire so much in your life.
Why? Because you will find it difficult to
communicate openly and deeply if you think he's thinking one way
but in his mind he's thinking a totally different way!
Speaking of what men want, here's something
that might surprise you:
More
than anything, most men want a healthy, fulfilling relationship
with a woman!
Men DO have emotional needs and they can
only be met by a mate - in a monogamous relationship.
Order Let's
talk....Man to Woman
now!
Now read this short testimonial from a lady who tried just
one tip from my book and what it did for her:
From Helen in Bangor, ME: If more women would sit back
and relax to be able to think about what they are willing
and able to give to relationship before they get into one,
I think that a relationship would be much easier.
Like
Owen says, you don't have to be walked on, but if we want
a relationship to work, we need to work at it too.
I
started off by reading this one chapter (Relating to And
Communicating With Men) and I can not wait to read the
rest of the book, because after I read just those pages,
it made me feel INCREDIBLE!! I could be myself, put forth
just a bit of effort and I can get in return by 10 fold
from my man! All I needed was the confidence to do as Owen
suggested and I was on my way!!
Now, I can say that you
don't have to even get up the confidence by much, because
when I read his words, they gave me enough confidence to
try just a bit and you know what?? IT WORKED!!! My Man
took me out to supper and I gave him a simple "Thank
you" and a deep kiss after and he was glowing from ear to
ear!! It was really incredible! And that
evening~~Well, let's just say---I WON'T FORGET it too
awefully soon!!!
|
And it can work for you,
too!
The vast majority of women really don't have a
clue what goes on in a man's mind and men know this all too well!
We FEEL it and it frustrates us no end! Time after time, we have
women pass through our lives leaving us sadly shaking our heads.
I can absolutely guarantee you, if
you learn just half of what you can from
reading Let's talk....Man
to Woman you'll have a HUGE
and UNFAIR advantage over an overwhelming percentage
of your "competition" out there.
Now think about this for a minute. If you're like
a lot of people today, you probably hit the Starbucks or some
other local coffee shop at least a few times a week. A latte costs
you what, 3 to 5 bucks, depending on the size, right?
For the cost of about six four of those you can get
your hands on information that can change your life.
That's right,
for only a modest investment of $19.95 - now
just $14.95! - you can purchase, download
and within minutes be reading a book
that can make momentous improvements in one of the most - if
not THE most - important areas of your life - your
relationships with men! What do those lattes do for you?
Hey, maybe after reading my book you'll walk
into the coffee shop and meet the man of your dreams because NOW
you know how to attract him, relate to him and have him just dying
to get to know you better!
Click here to purchase Let's
talk....Man to Woman
now!
Bonus chapter: "Internet
Dating: Can I Make It Work?"
Still not convinced? That's okay, it's alright to
be a little skeptical, I tend to be that way, myself! So let's
talk about the bonus chapter that's worth the price of the
book all by itself!
If you've tried Internet dating (if you haven't I
know for a fact you've got lots of friends who have) you know it
can be a real time-consuming effort, with limited results at best.
And it's not cheap! A month on Match.com or Yahoo Personals runs
about $20 - more than the cost of my whole book.
Like I said before, the vast majority of women
have no clue what goes on in a man's mind and the online personals
is a crystal clear example of that.
What do I mean by that? Well, most
women shoot themselves in the foot with what they say in their
profiles - and they have no idea it's happening! And
unless they learn to truly understand how a man interprets
their words, they're going to continue wasting their time and
money and probably never meet the man they're looking for!
If you knew what the rest DON'T know, wouldn't
that give you a tremendous advantage? When men are seeing things
they don't like in all those other profiles and clicking
"next" do you think you'd get to pick and choose from
the cream of the crop if you said the right things when the others
are all saying the wrong things?
Let me give you a few quick examples of how most
women unknowingly blow their chances before they even start:
-
A lot of women say things in their profiles
that men almost universally interpret as her being a
"gold digger" - whether she is or not
-
Too many women appear (from their own words) to a man to be
too busy to have a man in their lives
-
Some women describe the man they're seeking in
such detail that they virtually eliminate 99.9% of them in
just a few sentences
There isn't room here to go into much detail
on this subject but suffice it to say, when you read this
bonus chapter you'll most likely be totally amazed at how men
interpret the words women use (and the ones they DON'T use) in their ads.
Did
you know that approximately 90% of men who try an online
personal ad give it up after only ONE MONTH??!!!
Extra Special
Bonus!
Buy my book and I'll help you write a sparkling, solid gold, winning profile!
You read that right! For
a limited time only, I'm offering my readers a chance to have an
online profile edited - by a man - to make SURE you're not
making any of the "mistakes" most women are unwittingly
making that are blowing their chances with most of the men reading
the ads. If you already have one I can guarantee to increase your
responses and improve the QUALITY of the responses! If you're not
already online, let's get you started out right!
When you purchase the book you'll be given a
special email address to write to me for advice or answers to your
questions regarding an online personal ad.
Order the book now! Just
click on it below.
For a limited time only, just $19.95 $14.95! With a full
money-back guarantee: If you don't learn something that can help
you in your relationships with men, I'll give you your money back,
in full, and you can keep the book.
If you DON'T find something that can improve your
life, then you must already know everything in the book and you
don't need any help. But then, if you don't need any help
understanding men, you probably wouldn't be on this page!
To
purchase the book in .pdf format for instant download and be reading it in just a few minutes click on the book
above.
You'll be taken to a secure page where you will be
asked to enter your credit card information and once that's
completed you will see a Thank You page with the link to download
the book.
(You'll need program for reading PDF files,
like Adobe Acrobat or my favorite, Foxit PDF Reader, which you can download for
free by clicking here.)
I hope you enjoy reading my book and find -
and put to use - something that dramatically changes your love
life!
Owen Johnson
coach@man2woman.net
|